Wednesday, June 3, 2009

NEVER give up,


This is for EVERY person that has had their heart broken. Not just girls, not just boys, not the he/shes, straights, or gays, EVERYONE. When you think your the only one who has had your heart broken, think again. Every single person on this planet is different but we all have at least one thing in common, all of our hearts can be broken. We all fall in and out of love but when we love, we LOVE, and when we let go or get let go, we HURT. In life we are all hurt and all loved.

Sometimes we wonder why things happen in relationships... We wonder why we got stood up one Saturday night, why we cried for three months straight after a break up, why they choose to be with someone else when you knew that you were the one that loved them more than anything, why the one you loved promised you the world and ended up destroying your entire universe, why they ever said that they loved you when they cant love you when its over, why they ever said you meant the world to them when they so easily threw "the world" away, why you trusted them more than anybody in the world when they end up breaking your trust completely, why they said there wasn't any other person that they would rather marry when they end up buying a ring for someone else, why its your heart that is hurting when they don't shed a single tear, we constantly wonder; why, why, why....

One of my idols, Marilyn Monroe said that sometimes GOOD things fall apart so BETTER things fall together. Sometimes it's really really hard to believe that there will be anything better than what you had with someone you loved more than anything, but i promise it's possible and it WILL happen if you believe. There IS someone out there for ALL of us. We go through relationship after relationship so that we may learn and grow and better recognize the one for us when they cross our path. I know very very well what it's like to get my heart broken, it's happened to me more than once, but i also know what it feels like to have the courage to land on my feet again and fill my heart with hope of a better tomorrow. Believe me when i say that i have HURT and i have felt BROKEN and WEAK, but in all honesty nothing is broken, my heart is still beating, and it's strong...It's our CHOICE to think we are broken and think that there is something wrong with us for someone to not love us. CHOOSE happiness CHOOSE freedom from the hurtful chains that bind your heart, CHOOSE courage to get up and move forward, CHOOSE to LOVE even when your risk getting hurt, CHOOSE to LIVE because life is to beautiful to give up on just because someone made you cry. This is your life, CHOOSE what you will feel in it. Never give up....There is unconditional quantities of love in this world, go and grab some.